Talk to each other, really talk, not just the things that get the daily 

grind done, but about your thoughts, about your days experience, 

your reaction to events, your hopes and dreams.

Especially talk about God and His Word - the spoken word 

is powerful beyond our recognition.

You have to laugh together, and sometimes laugh hard. At yourself, at a situation, at yourselves. Laugh with, but never at, each other...

Prov. 15:13 - A merry heart maketh a cheerful countenance...

Relish in each other the wisdom you both have.   

Besides being two individuals with two sets of eyes 

looking at a situation - which can be a huge benefit, 

you have a male/female point of view as well, which 

can often lead to some great insights.